no matter what the problem, there is a solution. It may mean letting go of something you wanted in exchange for something else,; it may mean getting the guts to stand up to the person. I went to court yesterday to fill out a request for a restraining order.
It may mean doing something you didn’t want to do but it works out; it may mean praying for the person and asking for love so deep, it kills the hate. It may mean losing face and losing the contest if that’s what it takes to save your soul.